Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Bullsh!t

Hello Everyone! I have some updates. I am in the process of writing a children’s book. It is called "Real Friends Matter" and I am very excited about it. I had to take a brief brake because I had drama here at the Crashpad. What in the world is a Crashpad? A Crashpad is a place where us Flight Attendants and Pilots stay while away from home. The duration can be a single night or for month to month, I will post a video later to show you what mines is like. Anyhow, there was some drama before but this last one took about 2 weeks of energy. I am happy that the situation has resolved and now I can move on with that in the past. Without getting too deep into what happened, I will say I have learned something. I am a nice person, but sometimes I can be too nice. Too nice to the point I sit there and listen. I am also really good at reading personalities I usually can get a feeling of what kind of person they are. Sometimes I can put in words and sometimes it's just a feeling you've felt before. Who is this person? My ex roommate, I lived with her for 5 months. My first impression was always sketchy but unless I can prove it I always give someone the benefit of the doubt. As I got to know her I felt she was exaggerating her stories, but they were not exaggerations but lies. But there are certain things that you just know, I just couldn’t prove it. And so the times I did catch her in lies, she would just laugh or I would not say anything.

What is the moral of the story? When you know something and have a feeling of something express your thoughts. I entertained the lies and when I confronted her it seemed like it was betrayal. I never hated her or anything, but there is a point where you don't want to continue. When you know in your heart something is not right, or people are being dishonest just cut the BS right away. The longer you take the worse it is for you. Save yourself the drama and walk away from people like that. There’s more to the story, but I will leave it at that. Once again, walk away from people you feel and or know are full of sh!t.

2 comments:

  1. Yes this is so true! I too believe in letting someone go if you are not compatable with him or her. Its better to say good bye rather than boiling your blood.

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    1. Needless to say I have not seen her since ! And there has been piece in out living situation. Sometimes the best things aren't the easiest ways. But they are necessary.

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